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So you approached this girl you really like and she gave you her number.
Or maybe your hit her in the DM and she responded positively and gave you her number.
Wow!
You're so happy and excited.
So you start calling her everytime.
Like 4 or more times everyday.
Or maybe your hit her in the DM and she responded positively and gave you her number.
Wow!
You're so happy and excited.
So you start calling her everytime.
Like 4 or more times everyday.
You're "always" chatting her up.
Hitting her up with the"hi's" "how are you's" "how was your day's" and so on.
I know you just want to appear to be a caring, nice guy.
So that she might want to make you her boyfriend.
I understand bro.
Hitting her up with the"hi's" "how are you's" "how was your day's" and so on.
I know you just want to appear to be a caring, nice guy.
So that she might want to make you her boyfriend.
I understand bro.
But the truth is that if the girl was initially attracted to you, her attraction for you will fade as you start doing all those things (Unless she really really really likes you)
Why?
When you're doing all those things.
Why?
When you're doing all those things.
Like calling her so much, texting her so much, trying to spend time with her so much doing friendly and nice things with her (this is known as "chasing" her).
In her mind, she sees these gestures as thus;
"This guy is always hitting me up, so there are no other options for him.
In her mind, she sees these gestures as thus;
"This guy is always hitting me up, so there are no other options for him.
That means Ladies don't really like him. Then something must be wrong with him"
And trust me, that's a red flag for most ladies.
Ladies want a man who has many options of ladies available to him, but still has eyes only for her.
It makes them feel special.
And trust me, that's a red flag for most ladies.
Ladies want a man who has many options of ladies available to him, but still has eyes only for her.
It makes them feel special.
And not a man, who no girl wants.
They want a man, who other girls would be envious of her because he is her man.
And not a man, who other girls would be ridiculing her about.
And you calling her everytime, texting her everytime, spending too much
They want a man, who other girls would be envious of her because he is her man.
And not a man, who other girls would be ridiculing her about.
And you calling her everytime, texting her everytime, spending too much
time with her, tells her you have no other lady in your life other than her.
In other words, you're not an attractive man.
Now,
I want you to think about all the girls you started calling and texting too much immediately you met them.
In other words, you're not an attractive man.
Now,
I want you to think about all the girls you started calling and texting too much immediately you met them.
How did it turn out for you? You didn't get a positive response from them abi?
Maybe you saw yourself in the Friend zone or even worse the "Mugu zone"
Do you blame her?
If someone starts chasing you. What would you do? You'll run definitely.
So when you start chasing girls.
Maybe you saw yourself in the Friend zone or even worse the "Mugu zone"
Do you blame her?
If someone starts chasing you. What would you do? You'll run definitely.
So when you start chasing girls.
They start running away from you.
They run away from you by hitting you with the one word replies, replying you late, totally ignoring your texts and calls, avoiding to go out on a date with you by giving you flimsy excuses and so on.
They run away from you by hitting you with the one word replies, replying you late, totally ignoring your texts and calls, avoiding to go out on a date with you by giving you flimsy excuses and so on.
The best approach is to show her she's the only one you're interested in, however you still have other options.
So how can you do this?
I'll tell you that in my next post.
So how can you do this?
I'll tell you that in my next post.
Just have one thing in mind;
"Never Chase Girls, no matter how much you think you love them"
Talk to you later,
"Never Chase Girls, no matter how much you think you love them"
Talk to you later,
