Stop telling people what is and isn& #39;t cheating. You and your partner lay out your boundaries and rules together. If you can& #39;t talk about your comfort levels, boundaries and sexual preferences, you& #39;re not ready for a relationship. Communication & honesty is key.

If the person you are considering being with has different boundaries and desires than you, maybe it& #39;s not going to work out. If someone wants to change and makes that choice themselves, fine. But don& #39;t force someone to change their preferences/boundaries to match yours