Fellow allies! Managing our feelings is OUR WORK! We do this work to enjoy real relationship with others. We do this work so we can partner in making a more equitable society. That goal is worth the hard work on the self.

People who have called me out in the past are today some of my dearest friends. Change is possible. Let’s join together and make a better world—and let’s start by trusting and honor people’s experiences. Especially at the margins.