can we please stop normalising trash behaviour

that my father cheated on his fiancée by having a relationship with my mother who had no idea he was engaged isn’t a question of ‘men are naturally polygamous’ and ‘i should have been smarter’ it’s a question of ‘my father is a trash clown’ and ‘he shouldn’t have been an asshole’

(whether my father is ‘naturally’ a trash clown or not is a sensitive topic i will not be discussing in this thread because i do have said trash clown’s genes thank you for your understanding)