Guys please, if you have a little brother or sister that still in the elementary school or kindergarten or even more younger, please, i would appreciate if you or your parents educated him/her very gently.

so there is a little boy who is studying. his father is next to him. his father was indeed unable to control his emotions. his father kept saying to his son "read fast" "focus! don't talk" "you can tell your story later". after a while, his father started asking about the -

material his son had learned. the little boy was a little confused to answer questions from his father. the father was annoyed and said "have you been studying or not? Looks like you have been just playing" while hitting the little boy's forehead. his son was hurt and cried -

leaving his father.

from this story proves that :
- they're just kids, they need to be guide, not yell at.
- if scolded, children will think that this activity is very scary, or boring, or even think won't do it again. Like in the story above, the boy might hate studying -

because it's scary. He will lose their motivation for study because he think "i study just to be scold, so i should stop studying"
- more importantly, the children will hate you or your parents, they will think that "my father is temperament, my mother is scary, or my -

brother/sister is annoying".

So how you should deal with children :
- Guide and talk to them gently.
- if they want to hold their toy while studying then let them hold their toy. Or if they want to tell a story, then listen to their story first then slowly tell them -

"wow, that was a good story, so, can you read this? / can you do this question? / etc. "
at this age, kids do like to tell story a lot and have a lot of questions.
- if they succeed in understanding the material or completing questions, praise them. "you're doing great" -

"wow you're so good at this"
- if they fail to complete the question or understand the material, comfort them.
→ Here are some tips on how to respond to children if they make a mistake :
- "great! So you think that is the answer?:) Can you give the reason why?:) But as for -

me/mom/dad/brother/sister think this is the answer:), do you agree with me?:) do you want to change your answer?:)" While talk in gently soft voice.
-"it's ok to make mistake, do you want me to help you? Let's do it together:)"

Give them a lot of love, and i'm sorry if there is a mistake, this is just my opinion. I will appreciate if you remind me if there are mistakes. And last, i'm sorry i'm not good at english, *mostly from google translate*

Thank you for reading this thread and i hope you have a great day with your lil bro / lil sis / child^^

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