"i hate my husband and he hates me but we stay together for our kid". please, and i cannot stress this enough, get a divorce. it's better for a child to see their parents separated than live in a toxic household with parents who cannot stand each other. GET A DIVORCE.

btw i will not share personal stuff on here because i'd be violating my mom's privacy but i am a child of divorced parents and the fact that my mom asked for a divorce when i was younger instead of delaying the inevitable was much better for my mental health as a kid

so like. please just get a divorce. broken marriages fuck children up, sometimes beyond repair if the parents are constantly arguing and hate each other

they got a divorce when i was maybe 7? i do not have any memories of my childhood or of my own father. years passed and i can now say, as an adult, that it's preferable to protect your kid BY GETTING A DIVORCE lmfao