That may seem pessimistic to some w no peace. But when you find that inner happiness and peace. You just wanna be. A lot of people dig that energy and want to use you as a source of their happiness/peace but it don’t work like that.

You gotta find yours for yourself and you both share and build on that or it’ll never work. That’s why broken people or incomplete people like broken people/incomplete people. They each serve a purpose to fill those voids.

No outside entities, habits, or people can fill those voids bc they don’t know you as deep as you do. So it’ll never be an even exchange. People will always seem inadequate bc they’ll never fill those needs you have to fill yourself.

Most wont admit it but relationships are escapism for a lot of people. That’s why most don’t work. It’s a high that gets stale after awhile. Like when your tolerance get too high for a certain alcohol or weed. Same shit.

And if you’re at peace and found yourself and what makes you happy... the above isn’t appealing. You’re not somebody else’s person or possession. You are a human being with a unique existence. Finding someone on that journey is just a bonus.