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I made a post yesterday on my personal fb account which implied that it's not wise to chase a girl.
And a female friend of mine commented:
"I disagree a little because it varies from persons. Like me, if you re chasing me newly, or in fact want to
And a female friend of mine commented:
"I disagree a little because it varies from persons. Like me, if you re chasing me newly, or in fact want to
come into my life, if you don't keep in contact always, I mean everyday. Even if I like you already... I will throw the likeness away or keep you at bench"
So I want to use this opportunity to
tell you something very important.
So I want to use this opportunity to
tell you something very important.
Never take dating advice on how to get women from women.
Why?
Firstly, women don't approach women, so they don't have any experience in that area.
They're usually the ones being approached.
It's just like taking money advice from a poor person.
Why?
Firstly, women don't approach women, so they don't have any experience in that area.
They're usually the ones being approached.
It's just like taking money advice from a poor person.
Or buying a book on how to become a millionaire within 30days written by an author who has not seen a million before.
Secondly, girls usually love fantasies.
That's why they love romantic novels, Philippine movies, Korean movies and stuff.
Secondly, girls usually love fantasies.
That's why they love romantic novels, Philippine movies, Korean movies and stuff.
You and I know that the love portrayed there is not actually the reality.
So, most of the advice tips they'll give you is "what they think it should be" and not "what it is".
That's why when you ask a lady, maybe your female friend on how to make a lady your girlfriend.
So, most of the advice tips they'll give you is "what they think it should be" and not "what it is".
That's why when you ask a lady, maybe your female friend on how to make a lady your girlfriend.
You often hear something like;
"Be a gentleman, take her to romantic dates, wait like 3 dates before you go for the kiss, send her morning and goodnight texts, buy her gifts...blah blah blah"
But from experience you know that the above tips don't work most of the time.
"Be a gentleman, take her to romantic dates, wait like 3 dates before you go for the kiss, send her morning and goodnight texts, buy her gifts...blah blah blah"
But from experience you know that the above tips don't work most of the time.
At least 90% of the time.
That's why you see most guys say;
"I've done so much for this girl, buying her gifts, calling her, doing favours for her... but she chose me over that jerk. Ohh! Girls are so confusing. Nobody knows what they really want "
That's why you see most guys say;
"I've done so much for this girl, buying her gifts, calling her, doing favours for her... but she chose me over that jerk. Ohh! Girls are so confusing. Nobody knows what they really want "
Lol. This is the type of frustration that comes from listening to women about women 
See ehh bro,
If you actually ask a lady what made her fall in love with her partner, if she answers honestly, you'll often hear something like
See ehh bro,
If you actually ask a lady what made her fall in love with her partner, if she answers honestly, you'll often hear something like
"There's something about him that drives me crazy, I don't really know what. I just can't explain"
And that's the truth.
Most women don't really know what makes them fall in love with a man.
You might hear them say "I love a romantic gentle man" but when you
And that's the truth.
Most women don't really know what makes them fall in love with a man.
You might hear them say "I love a romantic gentle man" but when you
look around that's not the type of men they're falling in love with.
You've to understand that females are more of an emotional being, than a logical one.
Hence, they fall in love with emotions and not logic.
So, they'll fall in love with a man who
You've to understand that females are more of an emotional being, than a logical one.
Hence, they fall in love with emotions and not logic.
So, they'll fall in love with a man who
strikes the right emotions in them.
And not a man who seems right to the society (logic).
That's why you see women traveling long distances to see a guy she likes, whom she just knows barely from social media.
That does not make sense logically.
And not a man who seems right to the society (logic).
That's why you see women traveling long distances to see a guy she likes, whom she just knows barely from social media.
That does not make sense logically.
However if you view it emotionally, it makes perfect sense.
Now let's analyze my female friend's comment.
According to her when she meets a guy newly if he doesn't chase her she loses interest in him.
Now she was just referring to guys she likes already.
Now let's analyze my female friend's comment.
According to her when she meets a guy newly if he doesn't chase her she loses interest in him.
Now she was just referring to guys she likes already.
However most girls you'll meet out there won't like you already.
They still need to be won over by you.
She can't tell me it's every guy that's chasing her she's responding to.
Not every guy that's hitting her up in the DM or calling her everytime on phone she happily responds to
They still need to be won over by you.
She can't tell me it's every guy that's chasing her she's responding to.
Not every guy that's hitting her up in the DM or calling her everytime on phone she happily responds to
. She's just responding to the few she really "likes"
And trust me, chasing a lady is not one of the ways to win her over.
If a guy shows this my female friend he's interested in her and strikes all the right emotions in her, without chasing her.
And trust me, chasing a lady is not one of the ways to win her over.
If a guy shows this my female friend he's interested in her and strikes all the right emotions in her, without chasing her.
She'll NEVER put him on the bench.
Never!
You just have to show ladies you're interested in them, but never make the mistake of chasing them.
Remember, you chase a girl when you;
--start calling her too much. Like 4 or more times a day. When she's not your girlfriend yet.
Never!
You just have to show ladies you're interested in them, but never make the mistake of chasing them.
Remember, you chase a girl when you;
--start calling her too much. Like 4 or more times a day. When she's not your girlfriend yet.
-- texting her too much, even when the chat becomes boring.
-- trying to spend a lot of time with her doing friendly things, when you just met her newly.
...and stuff.
See, I'm not here to tell you what it should be.
I'm here to tell you, exactly what it is and what works.
-- trying to spend a lot of time with her doing friendly things, when you just met her newly.
...and stuff.
See, I'm not here to tell you what it should be.
I'm here to tell you, exactly what it is and what works.
Does it mean you shouldn't take a woman's advice at all?
No! Not at all.
You could actually take their advice on the type of clothes or style women like in men.
Or gifts you should get for a woman.
They have experience in that area.
No! Not at all.
You could actually take their advice on the type of clothes or style women like in men.
Or gifts you should get for a woman.
They have experience in that area.
But don't take advice about how to get women from them.
They don't really know how.
It's just like a woman asking a guy, what to do to make a guy fall in love with a her.
The truth is that most guys don't know about that.
They don't really know how.
It's just like a woman asking a guy, what to do to make a guy fall in love with a her.
The truth is that most guys don't know about that.
However, most women know what to do to a man, to make him go gaga for them.
Some runz girls call it
"Iru ya love" (making a man fall in love with them)
Learn one thing tonight, never listen to advice about getting women from women.
Yours sincerely,
Some runz girls call it
"Iru ya love" (making a man fall in love with them)
Learn one thing tonight, never listen to advice about getting women from women.
Yours sincerely,
