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One min you want guys to stop bottling things up and the next we get shamed for opening up. Over 60% of us grew up in a single parent household and mostly headed by mothers. That’s someone who won’t reference the struggle you shared with them to “Chommie” https://twitter.com/thendo_sharon/status/1260245878109069315
Some people you confide in because you trust that they can handle the information mentally and emotionally. This is why it's important to diversify your circle. People bring different skill sets to the table.
The people you choose to confide with when you’re really vulnerable should be people you trust who won't use your weakness against you. If it’s his mother, then I don’t see nothing wrong.
There's nothing more frustrating than wanting to confide in someone but knowing they won't understand where it is you are coming from. You can already predict what they are going to say and the shit just discourages you.
You swear you’re speaking in tongues because this person never seems to understand where you’re coming from. But when you confide to someone who understands what you are saying and where you are coming from. Makes you realize you weren't crazy after all
