Have you ever had somebody do you so bad for no reason at all? Like a friend you would’ve done anything for crossed you out of no where? A guy you was loyal to shit on you for nothing?

That pain hits you DIFFERENT because it wasn’t anticipated. Like one day everything was good then the next day they’re violating like y’all are enemies...

I’ve had this done to me more times than anyone should have to stomach and I’ve always found they changed up on me because of 1 of 2 things.
1. They’re battling some internal issue and projecting it on you. Or 2. You represent an insecurity they have within themselves.

When they’re projecting, they may not even notice how fucked up they’ve treated you until whatever hard time in their life is over. They usually look back like “damn, I had no reason to take all my shit out on you”

If you’re mirroring an insecurity they have within themselves, they may never be apologetic until they overcome whatever it is they feel they lack that you have.

Their jealousy wants you to feel as small as they do. And their insecurity won’t allow them to treat you good until they feel like they’re doing just as good as you. It’s so common for people to begin to hate you for your happiness. As if their own happiness is unattainable...

Honorary mention to flat out shitty people. Some people aren’t going through anything. Some people aren’t feeling insecure. Some people are just shitty people and they get tired of pretending to not be shitty and finally show you their true colors.

In any case, it doesn’t feel good when this happens to you. But you have to allow yourself to accept that it happened so you can begin to move on. If you know you didn’t do anything to warrant the fall out then never take it personally.

No matter how much they hurt you, don’t let this make you question you! “What did I do to deserve this?” “Why me?” “What could I have done differently?”...We ask ourselves these things...But you’d be surprised by how much of what is done to you is not even about you...

I’m not removing personal accountability. You have to know when the fault is yours. But if you have self awareness, you know you didn’t do them bad, you were solid with them & they STILL shitted on you, then you didn’t deserve to be treated that way I’m sorry that happened