We have sexed and have been sexed. We have slept with men whose names we hardly know sometimes. Don't come here with your patriarchy princess tendencies and shaming a child for dumping one man and for another after two weeks.

Some of you are staying in dysfunctional marriages and relationships. You are busy going from one church and sangoma to the next, fasting, trying to keep a deadbeat loser because you doubt your self-worth. But you think you can joke and poke fun at #Malaika.

As for the men who are going on at this, many of you have used your penises to get at women and silence those you viewed as adversaries. It happens in political parties, student movements, workplaces etc. So sit down. #Malaika is trending because you hate powerful minded women.