People say they want someone who listens. But most people “listen” to respond. So when you actually listen without giving any energy it gets lost. Most people don’t have a healthy reference point for someone just purely listening and witnessing.
Most of the time when I listen to people I just try to create a safe space. Often I’m indifferent and don’t have an opinion. Other times I’m actually silent because I’m receiving messages from my intuition.
Listening just to listen, is especially triggering for people who talk and share because they are looking for validation. I may simply say, I hear you. I won’t agree or disagree. This is done to convey, I’m not available to validate you.
Because I have so much training as a practitioner and an energy worker I’m always communicating things telepathically. But sometimes you really do have to spell things out for people.
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