Dear Asian American men:

Never, ever date a white woman who stores your contact on her phone like this. Just don& #39;t do it.

I am still fuming about this shit. He& #39;s a good guy. But pretty white girls get a pass like none other. She probably thought she was being funny as shit

My favorite part about this is the
(I& #39;m not Racist)

That is the white person bandaid that cancels out all casual racist jokes.

I& #39;m not still angry about THIS in particular. Just disappointed.

It just reflects back on us Asian Americans in a sad way, that white people feel "safe" joking to us like this.

And yes, I& #39;m also talking about Asian American *women*. In fact, probably even more so about us.

This is the price we pay to exist in White spaces. To be that White-adjacent model minority.

Asian American women who marry into White families know that particularly well.