This thread will be the final acknowledgement of this drama. I wanted to make a video about it, but decided it would be best to just make a thread instead since a video immortalizes it as a bigger deal than it ever should have been...

As you all know, I was inspired to stream by Destiny, and as we all know, Destiny fucks. Because of this, many of his fans joke about him having a harem or being the protagonist of a "Harem Anime". Naturally, a similar joke was made in my community...

I would joke about how "I will one day have a harem to surpass Destiny!" but it has always been a joke. Don't get me wrong, the idea of a poly relationships sounds interesting, but it wouldn't be online and it wouldn't be at this point in my life...

A few months ago, a lot of people wanted an NSFW chat in my fan discord. I agreed to have one on the terms that everyone who has access is verified to be 18+ with their ID. The NSFW chat was a place where people could share porn and post nudes/ horny post...

You guys may remember a few weeks back that I was super burned out and needed a break from streaming. I decided to take 2 weeks off and in the meantime, I started making friends and playing a lot of video games. many of the friends I made were in the NSFW chat...

I should clarify, none of the girls I befriended in the NSFW chat would be considered fans of me. One of them had been a friend of mine since 2018, the other had only seen one video of min, one had only seen one stream and the others, none of my content...

They were only in my fan discord to chat and make friends, and sure enough, we all became friends. After a while, we decided as a joke to make a separate room/role called "Xanderhal's Harem". This was just a chill spot where we chatted about games and politics and stuff...

There was also an NSFW section, but everyone just posted there when they wanted to. It was clear to everyone involved that this was no online poly relationship, just a group of friends hanging out and occasionally horny posting...

Everything went wrong when we moved the group to a new server. One of the girls in our group made a new discord and called it "Harem UwU". It was basically the same as the old room but on its own server. I didn't own it and didn't have any power in it..

Everyone in the discord was happy to be there and we all had a good time, until one morning I woke up to a shit ton of messages. Spooky, one of the members had a mental breakdown over some disagreement about star wars shipping...

She's a huge "Reylo" stan and someone brought up this drama about John Boyega getting racist comments from Reylo fans and this set her off. She lashed out and insulted everyone, left the server, had a breakdown in my server and posted this announcement in hers:

She went missing for like 5 days after that and I didn't pay attention to this since I was focused on streaming. Eventually she came back, and she wanted back into the server, but we all agreed it was a bad idea, so we said no. She took to twitter and started vague posting...

About me, saying things like "I need a new sugar daddy" and so on. Apparently, she thought our friendship was more than that and was counting on living with me and me taking care of her. Now she thought she lost that, and that's when she wrote up her big thread...

Most of the other girls don't want anything to do with this drama, they just want this to be over, so leave Spooky be and let her cool off. She has a tough life and she misinterpreted our friendship and took it too far. It was my mistake not being clear enough with her...

However, she has been spreading misinformation that bad faith actors like ThoughtSlime have been running with. Here is one of my friends from the Discord debunking some of her claims:

At the end of the day, I'd like this drama to die. It is really nothing but has been way overblown. Thanks for reading this thread, do not harass or seek out anyone involved, leave them alone.

Except ThoughtSlime, him spreading misinformation on his platform when everyone else involved has been making their voice heard and debunking her lies is unacceptable. He should try living up to his name and Think before posting something so serious.