i have loved someone who cares too much for an average person and is empathic to the point that they're dysfunctional because of it. and someone who has....well.... essentially an antisocial personality. and to be honest, there wasnt much of a difference

ive loved them both equally and i still do. those loves are so different perhaps i cant compare them. but the fact of the matter is that in the end, love is difficult, painful, takes effort no matter what the other person is like.

ive seen the extremities of empathy. the sheer too much of it and the complete lack of it. but surprisingly, both these people have loved me back in the same way. both had to put in just the same amount of effort for different reasons. and in the end, i understand them both.

probably because im average on the empathy spectrum? but i do feel like personally, instead of being empathic I'd say im sensitive which is different from empathy but somehow close...

my sensitivity has allowed me to be flexible albeit unbiased and I'd say im...the perfect person for this situation. to love and to be loved by such different people. and maybe i should write about this...

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