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ok someone& #39;s being anti-bottom lwj again so let me breakdown why & #39;lwj has top vibes so he Must be a top Only& #39; is a dangerous thought:
it restricts mlm (+ wlw too) relationships to heteronormative standards. and that& #39;s bad.
it restricts mlm (+ wlw too) relationships to heteronormative standards. and that& #39;s bad.
what does society think a top must be? strong, powerful, dominant, and typically Very masculine in their mannerisms
what does society think about bottoms? effeminate, flamboyant, submissive, and pretty dainty as a person
what does society think about bottoms? effeminate, flamboyant, submissive, and pretty dainty as a person
but honestly? talk to ANY mlm/wlw person and they& #39;d tell you: each queer/LGBT+ person have their own individualities.
what makes their preferences in bed are their life experiences, personality, and LITERAL PREFERENCE!
what makes their preferences in bed are their life experiences, personality, and LITERAL PREFERENCE!
additionally, not attributing bottom to a v masc person buys into the patriarchal thought that strong men should not lose control or be vulnerable. bc that& #39;s what bottoming actually is.
it& #39;s letting go control and be vulnerable to your partner!
it& #39;s letting go control and be vulnerable to your partner!
i would also like to point out that bottom/top =/= sub/dom. BDSM is a whole different monster than generic, vanilla sex, but i digress
