it is wild how i have never been catcalled irl or harassed online more than when i was 14
it would literally happen any time i was out in public without a parent, and grown men would approach me for my number (a few said it was ok when i told them my age!!)
sometimes i get dumb bitch brain and think "was i actually more attractive at 14?" "was it because of the way i dressed?" but that is total bullshit and i know it
i basically stopped getting catcalled regularly after i moved to virginia, so maybe it was just because i was in the least progressive part of philadelphia? i wonder if i would start getting catcalled again if i moved back.
it IS funny that i dont get random weirdos in my DMs anymore. once i lived in a slightly less homophobic place it was like a dam broke and i just dropped all of my feminine interests and i started dressing like a middle school boy (because i thought i was a boy)
we're in full oversharing mode now i guess
turns out im not a boy, but im also still not a girl, and I refuse to think about my gender any further. anyway. i am definitely going to delete this thread later.
turns out im not a boy, but im also still not a girl, and I refuse to think about my gender any further. anyway. i am definitely going to delete this thread later.