I beg of creators normalize acceptance of feminine fandom. Talk to us. We are not that scary - just sometimes intense with our love, which you should appreciate.

I have suggestions of course much of how you present things to Asian markets works on us in the west like -

1. relationship charts - oh we love these things

2. Categories and trope tags - we like to know what we are getting into emotionally

This includes things like major character death, don’t think of it as spoiling think of it as expectation setting

3. Selfish plug here but creators and cast go on female run podcasts - this is very important after Fem Gaze Fest. We talk - but we know how much access people get and we don’t and it’s obvious, the face of your fandom is reflected below and get what - it’s a lot of women.

4. Make sure there are clothes and T-shirt’s in our sizes @thedorkydiva has spoken about this recently but we can’t wear what we love and so we don’t.

5. We are incredibly smart and talk about these smart things all the time - the women involved in the top podcast are just a small fraction of the meta and video analysis and twitter threads based in story, analysis out there.

We want the story to reward us for looking closer.

6. We need to feel welcome in this space without fear. If you have blacklisted a podcast or public fan in the past for valid reasons. It hurts & scares us to see cast go on that show or work with that public fan

It feels like we do not matter & you only care about the boys club

7. Relationship investment aka shipping, feminine fandom will ship. You can’t stop it but don’t insult it.

Write good story & we will follow.

You can’t control what people will ship they will literally ship any interesting dynamic, non existent dynamics

Just write the story

8. You actually have no clue how big the feminine fandom is. We don’t behave the same way that you measure fandom

We invest heavily, we bring our friends and families (esp kids) along. We buy pjs, toothpaste, & vacations for the little ones

Female fandom is share & exponential

9. We thrive on shared experiences - remember @vibeswithcisco - why was that amazing? That was feminine fandom.

Reylos had inperson showings for Tros because they wanted to be together, be together in our interest.

Lean into that - and support our shared intensity.

10. We will do a lot with regular feedings but depending on the meal we will carry the conversation for years.

TLJ a banquet, Ben Rolo months, Rise of Kylo Ren reprints!

We will do a lot with a little love.

If create content for us - we will be there.