Thread by @payfordreams, i’m gonna address this straight up. no sugarcoating. there’s been some accusations [...]

i’m gonna address this straight up. no sugarcoating. there’s been some accusations put out against me and here i am to say what happened.

nsfw warning for sure, so if some adults don’t feel comfortable reading this then i’ll make a tl;dr.

this person said i pressured them into saying sexual things. i NEVER and WOULD NEVER do that. anything said over texts was consensual or initiated by the other person.

and yes, i regret this stuff. a LOT, actually. i have since i broke ties wifh this person. i know that as a younger teenager these things shouldn’t be said over text, and i’ve learned my lesson from that. i will admit things were said, but everything was a two way thing &

consensual. i can admit some questionable things happened on facetime that i wouldn’t like to go into detail about, but that’s also something i’ve learned from and never will EVER do again. everything that happened i would ask several times if it were okay and it was never-

-secret or anything. i would tell them i would hang up if they were uncomfortable or they could hang up and it would be totally fine. every single time they said it was okay and that it was fine. EVERYTHING WAS CONSENSUAL. EVERYTHING. i would absolutely never go against someones-

-comfort. y’all know this. i literally talk about how disgusting people are for doing that constantly.

now onto the next thing:
this doesn’t justify anything, but at the time my mental health was extremely low. this was known by the other person, i told them. more than enough.

they know i have past issues with relationships. and i told them that. it’s still a terrifying thing to me. and like i said, this does NOT justify anything. i apologize to them sincerely for making them feel bad. i know sometimes i would say things that were rude, and snappy,-

-which were due to the problems with mental health & me trying to protect myself constantly. i also have screenshots of me personally apologizing to them for snapping at times and explaining why. my words were not the best a lot of times, but i would apologize. and i’ve learned

from myself. it doesn’t justify it, but it’s important. this is me defending myself, so i’m not going into detail about anything except me explaining myself.

and the last thing. this isn’t something i should have to explain. he should not- be a topic in this at all. i think it’s absolutely disgusting that he was brought up. but here: they know i did not subtweet them involving my ex. i TOLD THEM THIS.

i’d also like to say sexual assault is a large term that shouldn’t be thrown out there. i have never met this person in person. EVER. they live about 5-6 hours from me or something and in a different state. therefore i could not have assaulted them.

i’m not sure what else there is to say. i just wish people would realize not everything is true & you should be getting both sides.

i don’t have much of else, as i deleted many chats and i cant get past facetime calls. but here’s this.

my name isn’t public as of now, so i won’t make this person’s public. but for whoever’s seeing this, i guess it’s gonna be said. it’s just an unfortunate situation.

my dms are always open as well for whoever wants to talk things out. if i have you blocked then i can either talk to you on my instagram or i will answer your second accounts as well. thank you for reading this.

well, update on this: i’ve been told i’ve been addressed by name. so let’s clear this up. everything’s been cleared up except these few things. THIS was taken out of context. yes, i got angry. there was no reason to be and i do NOT act like this anymore.(there’s more screenshots)

we weren’t dating, but she told me multiple times it was like we were and told me she was in love with me. yes, i made stupid stupid stupid mistakes and i’ll never condone my behavior, but i can explain it. and move from it. and grow from it.

now with this one, i actually APOLOGIZED. i wasn’t exactly angry, just upset i felt lied to. but after that i let it go. i haven’t said anything to pres since the whole j*ck drama went down and since then she had me blocked. i had no interest in talking to her either.

for the pictures? i’d never get angry if they weren’t sent. in fact, i was uncomfortable a bit with sending them, but i never said that, so that’s nothing against her. i told her multiple times that she never had to send things if she didn’t want to. i would always ask her-

-multiple times if she was comfortable. if she said she wasn’t comfortable i’d tell her that’s totally okay and whenever she’s ready. now i regret doing this at all in GENERAL, but it happened, so i have to explain it.

for this one, i wasn’t mad, just upset. back then i was extremely insecure, and i was upset that if a friend called, she’d hang up on me to talk to them. which, is childish, but that’s why. i never would get upset if she didn’t answer fast enough, that’s never been a thing.

with this, i can’t say how i affected her mental health, but i can say how this went down. i definitely was . rude, a lot, which i’ve explained in this thread, but it was definitely a two sided thing. neither of us were kind to each other. it was toxic for both of us. which is-

-why we cut ties in the first place and decided not to talk anymore.

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