This same thing happens to me if i got hurt by an idol or a group but then slowly as time pass by, i can start listening to their songs again. I was hurt but my love is still there, i got hurt because i love them and after some time i get to accept what is inevitable. https://twitter.com/BABYSJ6/status/1259443849346215936

Just wanna share some of my experience..

(nothing much is interesting on this thread)

When cube suddenly announced Eunkwang's enlistment, i was really upset to cube & H-H. Melodies who were there that time would probably get why i felt that, yes, that issue. I felt really sad, it was so sudden. I cant listen to btob's songs and even to ptg's since that happened.

few months passed, changsub's enlistment date was released. My first bias to enlist. It was so hard to send off a bias. I even cant listen much to his released solo album. Same with minhyuk i also feel sad bc i cant even attend the send off party :(

But after sometime, i was+

able to listen to them again. I miss them. I know they will be back and even before, i know this event will come. I can listen to them but i cant help not to miss them everytime i hear their songs. I felt secured & assured w/ BTOB and Melody so i have nothing to worry

When Woojin out of the blue left stray kids, i was deeply hurt and i felt betrayed. I blamed jyp the most. I had a lot of questions. As time pass by, i heard some rumors from kstays about the reason of leaving. When Chan finally mustered his courage to talk about it, i confirmed+

what i heard from before and finally fully accepts it. Since he left, i never listened to their songs. I dont want to hear his voice (i was that hurt) gladly skz released skz2020. They re-recorded most of their tracks. But i wasnt able to listen to those on the day of release. +

It took me week to listen to the songs. And tbh i havent listen to IAY upto this day.

When Wonho left monsta x, i cant help but to get hurt too. But on his case, since i know him for years, i understand him, why he did that. And same thing, even though i was able to accept that thing faster than the others, i stop listening to their songs for the mean time. They +

just started in promoting their cb album but it's hard to watch their stages especially the Find You stage When the special video for find you was released, i cried in happiness bc woah the dramarama story continues, i cry bc of hyungwon's role but after wonho left, i cry +

because of him. He's the sweetest in monsta x and i miss him. He left for the sake of mx, im happy he's back as a solo. And im also glad that they really have a good brotherhood and still goes out as 7.

Today, i can freely listen to them without feeling hurt.

There's another, B1A4. I felt really hurt when jinyoung left them (followed by baro). Just on their 7th yr anniv, JY promised to stay for more years yet he's the one who left us :( I was slowly accepting it but during the time Sandeul told us how he felt about it, i was hurt +

even more. He said, he cried for month and cant even leave his house. It really breaks my heart. But today, his energy is back, he is working again and even had a solo comeback, im so happy about it.

Last october 2019, aside from woojin and wonho, there's one more who left a group. Hwall. I'm not even a big fan of the boyz that time but i also felt sad and even cried when i read his letter. Seeing updates lately from him that he is still in contact with the members joys me +

especially when he met with haknyeon last holiday. During my 'knowing tbz days' i got to know more about him. By watching him, i thought that if i was already a deobi on that time he left, like how i was able to accept wonho's departure, i think i can accept it faster too but

also cant help it but to be sad as well.