A BABY MAMA is a biyach that believes a baby is supposed to make him stay, uses the baby as a paycheck & tries to use the baby against him & make his relationships miserable. She believes she has a POINT TO PROVE

A MOTHER will make sure she reproduces with a responsible men so the child will grow with both parents. And in the case the father isn't present, she doesn't care who the baby daddy mess with nor spend her time making his life horrible. She puts her child first

In a nutshell, not all women with kids are mothers. The majority are just breeders, I'd even want to say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY but seeing how your kids are staying with GRANDMA I'll pass