When a lady says she doesn't want to have kids, it's dumb to insinuate she's being selfish by saying, "what if ur mother didn't give birth to u".

And so, what if?

U didnt do the child any favours by birthing them.
U simply did it for u.

I wish more pple wud be honest abt this.

This is why parenting is a responsibility.

So from the moment u made the choice to have a kid, it became ur responsibility.

You'll feed it, clothe it & shelter it till it can do so for itself.

U'll also assume some responsibility for how that kid turns out in the future.

And when u've made an in-depth analysis of urself & seen that u're not in a position to cater for a kid both financially and emotionally and cannot offer these basic necessities, why bring one into this world for selfish reasons?

So allow women who do not want to have kids be.