More thoughts about FLR (thread)

FLR is not a sexual type of game, it's a special relationship model.
You can take aspects of bdsm, so it overlaps, but it's important to have a definition outside of kink. The desire to play comes and goes, kinks can change over the time.

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And one important aspect in a FLR is the male input.
I see sometimes, that men in an FLR fall into a kind of passivity or they only try fullfil their partner's wishes in an act of servitude. But this is not how a meaningful relationship works in the long run.

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The man has to make a massive contribution to the relationship, also with creative input.
This means that, of course, the man also plays an active part in shaping the common life plans and not only the woman who makes all the stipulations.

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A relationship in which the woman not only has to make all the decisions at all times, but also have to do the preparations, will quickly become tiring and exhausting for both parties. A man who voluntarily chooses an FLR will feel the desire ....

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not only to contribute to the relationship with his service, but also with his brain.
Of course there is a power exchange. Nevertheless, constructive feedback and real input from the man should enrich the joint plans at all times.

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And the woman should encourage it as the leader. Leadership consists of specifying a direction, influencing people and shaping contexts.
Like in business, where the manager relies on the motivation, competence and creativity of their subordinates to achieve the goals.

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