Thread by @De_alpha_male, During my service year, I fell in love with a very innocent [...]

During my service year, I fell in love with a very innocent looking and beautifully created lady. We started dating and things were moving so well for the first few months. I saw a future in us and started making plans. I even introduced her to my mum and some of my friends.

My investment in the relationship was beyond emotions. We were always going out on dates at expensive eateries and malls on the island, Lekki to be precise. Movies, gifts and other things. My PPA was paying me 150k monthly while hers was paying as poor as 10k monthly.

As a way to level up things for her, my monthly allowance was always sent into her account every month till the end of our service year. We were in different batches, so my POP was two months before hers. It was then I started noticing strange attitudes.

... My calls were getting unreturned and my messages were not responded to on time. The most painful part was this lady never allowed me to know her house. One thing led to another, she blocked me on whatsapp and I was wondering what happened. I was in love and seriously broken.

I reached her with another line and through my sister @TheTojolaBilqis and we were able to settle things on one or two occasions due to her intervention. Her excuse was I was demanding for too much attention and I was not understanding that she was a busy person. Lol....

When communication was not making sense to me, I knew something was up and decided to do my findings. All my efforts to make her talk to me proved abortive. So I reached out to one of her male friends on Facebook. I sent him a message and we began to talk...

The friend told me about a guy she has been dating several months even before we met and I found it hard to believe. At a point a knew one guy was always calling but in her defense, he was just a friend/toaster and a tailor. So we oftened laughter it off and made jest of him. Lol

One day, while going through Facebook, I saw a notification that someone tagged her and I decided to send a DM to the guy to know why he had to tag my girlfriend on a post. Lol. Mind you, I didn& #39;t disclose my chat with her male friend cos I felt he was just lying to me.

So I DMed this supposed tailor friend and initiated a friendly conversation with him. I asked him if he knew the babe and in his response he said: SHE IS MY WOMAN. Something first rang on my head and my breathing speed was so fast. I comported myself to get more information...

So I jokingly said: Oh wow, maybe because of you she refused to accept my proposal to be her boyfriend and the guy replied: ehya, it is a function of her discretion.
Then suddenly, I started getting some funny messages from her. For someone who has not replied me for days

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She queried me why I was asking someone about her on Facebook blabla. Apparently, the guy had messaged her that I was asking him about her. So she told the guy I was her Ex-boyfriend and we had broken up. I continued my chat with the guy on Facebook and thanked him for the info.

So, I started confronting madam with receipts of my chats with her male friend and supposed tailor toaster turned boyfriend. When she knew yawa don gas and couldn& #39;t lie further, she was sorry and all I got was: sorry I didn& #39;t mean to do it, it was all your faults. Like how

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I was really heartbroken and sad. The first time in my life I went to a club and took alcohol. Like I was so drunk. I still wonder how I was able to drive home safely

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https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">. The next day, I realized she& #39;s blocked me on all platforms, so I couldn& #39;t reach her again.

I tried to create fake accounts on Facebook and Instagram to reach out to her and pour my heartbrokeness and anger but it was all a futile effort and I just resigned to fate. I realized I lost already and when I decided to share the story with some friends, they just said MOVE ON

So the lessons I learnt were:
1. Never make any woman your priority except your are married to her.
2. Always follow your instinct whenever you feel something was wrong.
3. Do not make money a point of attraction to a woman, no matter how small or big. Money doesn& #39;t hold a woman.

4. Unless you are married, having more than one partner is not cheating. It is always best you have options. So if one fucks up, you can move on with the rest. You are simply not bound to be loyal to one person while dating. Making one person your all mostly end in premium tears.

5. Always remember that Karma will always find its way to locate you. I broke an almost 6years relationship to be with another person which ended within a year

6. Don& #39;t be in a hurry to get serious with anybody within a year of a relationship. It is mostly a sign of desperation.

6. Commitment is a risk but if you must take it, always remember that not all relationships must end in marriage. Some people were meant to just cross your path to teach you a lesson. It is not how far but how well.

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