How to flirt with queer womxn/non-binary folks when you have been conditioned to be passive. (Due to the cis-hetero normative world we live in)

1. Trust yourself absolutely. Everyone is a sexual agent. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Often times we doubt ourself and convince ourselves we are wrong

2. Unlearn internalized sexual stigma. Often times we have internal shame that we may be behaving in a predatory manner. Remember that if you have done the work to unlearn sexual stigma and that if you trust yourself you may not even be engaging in this behavior in

The first place. Also remember that you are always capable of reading the other persons energy. If they are not receptive you can apologize and move on. Sometimes we make mistakes. That’s ok. You are not inherently evil or predatory

As long as you own up to that mistake and move with love

3. If the feeling is mutual. Stay in the moment! Feel the natural flow of conversation. Your intuition will guide you on what to say next

(If you find yourself stuck in the compliment only phase try getting out of it by asking deeper and more personal questions. Be honest and willing to extend the conversation further)

4. Have fun! Not evrything is serious. Have humility. Make fun of yourself or the situation.

5. Be direct. I know this is probably the scariest part but shoot that shot. The worst that could happen is that they say no

6. Be creative. Think of what they may have said in the past and start or extend conversations based off that.

Hope this helped lmao and if not then it eez what it eez. Remember sex/flirting/romance are beautiful acts that should be enjoyable. If at any point they aren’t stop and reevaluate. Ask what you/your body needs.