Thread by @angryretsuko, rando: rape fantasies and noncon fic is bad, its normalizing rape, youre [...]

rando: rape fantasies and noncon fic is bad, its normalizing rape, youre retraumatizing yourself, if you like this you're deranged and sick

experts:

Small notes: victims/survivors with fantasies is a way to convert feelings of powerless and pain into pleasure and power. unsresolved trauma can convert to fantasies. Its not abnormal https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2018/01/13/dark-fantasies-part-1-with-dr-ian-kerner

Dark Fantasies, Part 1 — With Dr. Ian Kerner

Orgies. Sex in public. Incest. These are the things that some of us think about in the dark. Taboo fantasies can be exciting, but they can also be the source of our deepest shame. In this two-part...

https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2018/01/13/dark-fantasies-part-1-with-dr-ian-kerner

"while rape fantasies are common, this does not mean that women secretly want to be raped. There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences...."

https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-do-half-of-women-have-fantasies-about-being-raped-7099630/