comphet b like “yeah i know you’d never date a guy or have sex with one but have you considered: dio brando from jjba bc you’ve had one dream about him :))))))”

no one:
not a single soul:
comphet: :) u. like. guys.

can i just say accepting the fact that i can be very attracted to fictional men/celebrities and still be a lesbian has been amazing. i literally cannot fathom dating or being attracted to joseph joestar if he were ever real

kanamori on the other hand.... jfc if she were real id want to date her RIGHT AWAY

if i try thinking about these fictional men/celebrities actually asking me out i get so disgusted and it feels wrong, but literally any fictional girl can breathe irl and i WILL. give them my left arm

anyway what im trying to say is: comphet is a major league bitch (hehe mlb) and im so glad i reached out about my sexuality and found the comphet doc

i will say i did know about comphet beforehand but i didnt think it applied to me bc i was “bisexual” so i was just vibing until my brain finally decided to work and now i am a proud lesbian

also i can tell you very easily the difference between my guy crushes and my girl crushes irl and they’re. super different

my guy crushes consisted of guys i would NEVER interact with because they were either
A) fictional/celebrity or
B) a teacher, popular guy, or anyone i knew i would never get close to

also i realized i never wanted to date them, i just wanted the validation that came with someone popular liking me and how it could boost my status, and i had a VERY idealized version of the guy i would like.

i also want to point out the obvious comphet crushes id get because well, if a guy friend is nice to me i HAVE to like him right??

and now we have girl crushes. oh boy
i fell in love w my best friend is there anything else i need to say

in all seriousness my crush on her deviates completely from my guy crushes because
A) she is literally my best friend
B) she is obtainable
and C) i actually want her to date me

also didnt hold an idealized version of her in my brain bc well. i already freakin knew her,,,, and i very much wanted to give her my all for years to come

that’s enough on this thread this is getting long. making a separate thread about comphet and how it affected my sexuality :)