I’ve learned over the years that the best defense is FACTS and TRUTHS. I find that it usually shuts ‘em right up 99% of the time. It’s not necessary to respond with insults and sink down to their level. Insults are used by the ignorant. Facts and truths are used by the wise.

There’s still that 1% that are thick as a brick. You’ll see that they only respond back to your facts with insults—not with their own facts. Those people can’t be helped. The majority though, hopefully, will learn something and make them think twice to google before commenting.

It’s also completely possible to raise up one person without tearing down another. It doesn’t make the raised up person look better...in fact, it takes away from the praise. Just raise and praise. Tearing down isn’t necessary. #raiseandpraise

Also: Just because you can comment, doesn’t mean you should. We live in an age where everyone thinks they can say whatever they want while they hide behind their keyboards. Think to yourself: what will this accomplish? If it’s going to spread toxicity, is that what you want?

Concentrate and follow what you’re interested in & ignore the rest. There are Royals that I don’t care for. I don’t sit online and bash them. I choose not to follow or tweet about them. My favorite quote: “If you don’t like something, take away its only power: YOUR ATTENTION”.

You don’t have to like and support everyone. However, not supporting someone doesn’t mean you should disrespect them. I support people who I feel deserve my respect and support. I support and raise up the people I like And ignore who I don’t. Disrespect isn’t necessary.

Just because you don’t like someone, it doesn’t mean they aren’t loved and adored by millions. You can dislike someone, but still recognize and appreciate their accomplishments and good work.

If you’re going to attack someone’s appearance, you best be sure that you post your own photo and look like a damn supermodel. When you speak negatively about others, you aren’t insulting them. You’re only reflecting the ugly person you are inside. And it ain’t pretty #ugly

Karma...oh Karma...it’s a bitch. Be careful what you wish onto others. Karma has a strange way of showing itself...and it always does. It may take a while...but when it does, it bites you back tenfold. Be careful.

Don’t be a fool or engage with them—you’ll never win. “Fools are wise in their own eyes failing to take in wisdom and advice, which will be their downfall. They suppress the truth by their unrighteousness.” If you encounter a fool, say a prayer for them, block and move on.

“Think before you speak, read before you think” ~Fran Lebowitz. Read the article, not the headline. See if the sources are trustworthy, look for the facts—not rumors and hearsay. Only then, can you form an un-biased opinion. Spreading falsities based on headlines is just foolish.

Always stick to the topic. If the tweet is about ABC, it’s not necessary to tweet about LMNOP. Nobody cares. Stick to the topic.

Valid Criticism does not equal hate or racism. Disagreeing with someone does not make you a hater or a troll. Labels should be used based on behavior and how they respond to people. Always look at all tweets to figure out if they truly are a hater or If it’s rightful criticism.

Just because you don’t like something you read...doesn’t make it untrue.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk . I’ll be keeping this thread open as more thoughts come into my mind. Now I’m off for the day! Happy Sunday!!

If you are going to try and defame someone’s character with lies, yet say you can defend your statements with facts when called out, then you should post said facts. If you can’t produce the facts when asked for them, then you’ve proved your statement is false.

If you say you have the facts, then you should have no problem pulling them up and proving someone wrong. Telling someone to do “their own homework”, just proves you’re a liar. A person with facts will produce them on demand...they will have no problem sharing the truth.

A liar will dance around their false statements with jibber jabber and more nonsense, not the “facts” they say they have....THAT my friends, is how you can tell a liar from a truth teller. Spread facts, not lies. In the end, you just come off looking foolish. #bigfatliars

If you spend all your time following and tweeting and commenting about people you HATE—allowing them to live rent free in your brain—you’re not a hater, you’re a fan. When you truly detest someone, you delete them from your brain and your atmosphere. Think about that...

I find it interesting that tweeters who have bios that state “kindness”, “feminism”, “spread love”, are the ones doing the exact OPPOSITE .

I also think it’s comical that people who have “I’m only here for one couple” in their bio, spend most of their time posting about everyone BUT that one couple they’re “only here for”.

If someone is a vile bully, they’re a vile bully REGARDLESS what other good things they do on the side. STOP DEFLECTING & stop making excuses For vile people when they’re eventually called out and exposed for their wretched behavior. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Period.

#truth

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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery ~Oscar Wilde. Remember that.