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I want to tell you all a story about a man I know who gave a woman who had nothing, everything.
He was a young man with ambition. He moved to the UK and formed his own small business which was enormously successful.
It came to a point where he was ready to settle down, so he asked his parents for a recommendation on a suitable wife.
It came to a point where he was ready to settle down, so he asked his parents for a recommendation on a suitable wife.
They found a woman. The daughter of a friend in the village. She was 23 and naturally beautiful. No formal education and her sexual promiscuity was strictly under control by her family and the wider social circle. This was and continues to be the normal in the rural villages.
He flew back home, met and subsequently became engaged with this woman. He then returned to the UK and commenced the application for a spousal visa. Some time later, she arrives and they have a wedding and tie the knot.
She falls pregnant soon after, and again a second time, a boy and a girl.
He buys a newly developed 4-bedroom house in one of the finest areas located near his business. He sends her on an English course and to also take driving lessons.
He wanted her to be independent.
He buys a newly developed 4-bedroom house in one of the finest areas located near his business. He sends her on an English course and to also take driving lessons.
He wanted her to be independent.
He knew the life she lived in the village, a life of poverty, and naturally wanted the best for his wife.
He then buys the latest Mercedes and hands her the keys. Whilst I work and the kids are at school, you go and explore. See the world he said.
He then buys the latest Mercedes and hands her the keys. Whilst I work and the kids are at school, you go and explore. See the world he said.
He then began acting different. He was not himself. It’s clear his mind was not present but the exact issue was unknown to me, or anyone else, at that time. The thing everyone least expected occurred.
The news broke. His wife had been having an affair with his BEST FRIEND.
The news broke. His wife had been having an affair with his BEST FRIEND.
His best friend. For over one year.
A friend, who is also married with kids. A friend they went on couple holidays together. A friend who he trusted. A wife he thought he trusted.
A friend, who is also married with kids. A friend they went on couple holidays together. A friend who he trusted. A wife he thought he trusted.
Had this woman still lived in the village, she would’ve been shunned, ostracised and potentially worse, by her family and everyone she knew.
But not in the land of the free. She was liberated and had an unbelievable confidence to stand resolute.
But not in the land of the free. She was liberated and had an unbelievable confidence to stand resolute.
He still wanted to repair things for the sake of his kids but she was having none of it.
She sought a lawyer. Demand he sell the house and business and split the proceedings of the sale. Both came to fruition.
She sought a lawyer. Demand he sell the house and business and split the proceedings of the sale. Both came to fruition.
She now lives alone, in a flat with her kids. Is the mistress of the man she had an affair with.
He’s now an employee. No business. No house (he lives in a council flat). Hasn’t seen his kids for over a year due to fabricated lies that he was violent towards her.
He’s now an employee. No business. No house (he lives in a council flat). Hasn’t seen his kids for over a year due to fabricated lies that he was violent towards her.
He gave her his everything, and she took that, and then some, and crushed his heart and his whole being whilst she was as it.
Why? Because he manifested his love in the way men are told today: lavish her with everything and every fibre of your being.
Why? Because he manifested his love in the way men are told today: lavish her with everything and every fibre of your being.
Men, there are many lessons to learn from this story.
Learn them, lest the same happen to you.
Learn them, lest the same happen to you.
