All of this boils down to socialization around partnership/relationship economics. Married women/mothers shoulder too large a share of the labor in most cases, and the financial share husbands used to dominate to justify that imbalance is diminishing. https://twitter.com/instyle/status/1254516061392777218

It was an extreme case, but the clip of that woman the other day who said she worked all day and came home to that dirty ass house comes to mind.