Like, she& #39;s a textbook case of grooming. Her failure (refusal) to understand that she was a victim in the situation is part of why grooming is so successful. There& #39;s nothing nice or glamorous about victimhood especially when you fancy yourself the independent type https://twitter.com/fatbellyshellyy/status/1254668982818418688">https://twitter.com/fatbellys...

In the video she further details how she felt pressured into having sex with him. I remember watching this video and thinking "girl you were raped" and turning it off bcos I just felt sad for her man. Yes, Mihlali was wrong for her tweet cos gr8 influence= gr8 responsibility

Especially cos a huge part of her follower base are teenn girls and young women but can we stop equating an in denial (ignorant?) victim to actual abusers. Stop it.