Some of you may raise sons and daughters. Your generalisations on the opposite sex will shape your parenting. For your own good and your children’s well being... grow up and ditch that trauma mate.

“Men are trash.”
“Women are trash”

In big big pandemic....

Shut up!!

Working with the result of adults who couldn’t partition whatever happened to them in their previous relationships so they take it out on the children psychologically.

Men and women. Does my nut in.

Take accountability of the choices you make and in some instances continue to

We got kids growing up in a world where adults are teaching them “men are trash, women are trash” based of your dodgy dating experiences

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Don’t poison another persons experiences because yours went Pete Tong. Let them arrive at their own conclusions.

Half the time relationships ain’t working because the young man or woman has to battle through subliminal messaging and preconceptions on the gender they’re dating.

7 Billion people in this world and you want to do “men and women are trash”

Grow the fuck up. Man breaks your heart. Woman breaks your heart.

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You then tell your son or daughter what?!

Boo hoo!! Get over it. Shit hurts but that’s your pain not theirs.

Misery really loves company!

I’d never let my experiences with women shape my sons dating and future relationships... and I’ve got more than enough reason to be the most bitter man in the world but that’s not parenting, projecting your hate through the generations.

Lol it’s mad when you date someone who is angry with you and you haven’t done anything wrong. Luckily I’ve got enough empathy to understand my behaviour might be triggering something in her past for example and it’s not personal. How could it be?! I’ve only been here 5 mins.

Free up the anecdotes, they may provide solace. But don’t go on a recruitment drive for your trauma and then wonder why your own relationship with your children mashes up because you haven’t addressed the roots of that negative energy.