A lot of girls don’t actually have ‘father’ issues. They have mother issues, disguised as father issues because they don’t understand that their mother is a reflection of their father. The feminine is within, meaning whatever the mother was, her father simply was a manifestation

of, her internal workings.
All starts internally.

If the mother lacks self esteem, has had a poor relationship with self image translated to her, doesn’t understand her worth & fears gaining control of her own reality, then she’ll mirror a masculine partner who subscribes to the idea of her being worthy of less accountability

from him, as well as who attempts to suppress, subject, control or minimise her. The ‘father’ issues often spoken of that attract the wounded masculine template/men w/ baby boy syndrome, is actually the feminine embodying/internalising the mother’s wound & using that as an

attraction point.

Forgiving the mother is every bit as important as forgiving the mother for healing to occur here.

*father**