The 12H is the part of yourself that you need to let go of.

Ex:

Libra 12H needs to let go of putting effort into seeking/maintaining relationships if they desire intimacy and it will come.

Virgo 12H needs to let go of critiquing themselves if they want to feel beautiful

To be clear abt Libra 12H, you need to not be hard pressed about trying to balance yourself through rxships.

Then once you get one, don’t be hard pressed abt keeping the balance in them and just let it happen on its own