Let me tell you something.. when you have your own money, have your shit together, and are very ambitious it is very hard to men to play games with you because they know you deadass need nothing from them and are not easily impressed.

They can wave things like dinner, money, bags, etc over your head because that’s the life you already live.. so they gotta come to the table with something else because it’s like...... what do I need you for?

And let me tell you something... there is an abundance of men out here that are more than willing to give a woman the world.. they just not doing it for women they feel like they can buy. Never confuse women getting bags and vacations as a win.. that was just buying time for them

It’s like.. oh you want a bag.. that’s only 5k to get you give some box and shut up without having to put in much work.. win win for them when it comes to a situation with a woman that’s not really about anything. Lol, they not dumb they just don’t care lol

One of my homegirls got a Tesla for Mother’s Day.. her man don’t play about her because she had her own money and shit when he met her... Meanwhile there are women out here selling their souls for a Chanel just to take pictures for the gram... your box only worth 5 bands?

But if that’s the life you wanna live more power to you.. I’m not judging. I just think it’s funny when some women thinking they finessed someone, only to get ghosted or not have that same man pull through when they really need help or are in a jam.