regardless of your enneagram number, you have likely played the role of either Victim, Persecutor, or Rescuer in your relational history. this is called the drama triangle. #millenneagram https://twitter.com/hannahpaasch/status/1254465726565380097

maybe you're a base type Eight protecting a small, helpless part that feels like a Victim, while others have experienced you as a Persecutor. #millenneagram

maybe you're a base type Three or Four who gains self-worth & social capital from playing the role of Rescuer. in feeling misunderstood, you can move to the Victim role. #millenneagram

maybe you're a base type Two or Six who offers help from a place of anxiety rather than true Self (Rescuer), & then resents when it is not valued & returned (Victim). #millenneagram

maybe you're a base type Seven who has watched the drama triangle play out in your relationships & has chosen to blame intimacy for drama & codependency. #millenneagram

maybe you're a One who has played Rescuer so long that, disintegrating to Four, you move to Victim: "no one appreciates my work. why bother." #millenneagram

maybe you're a base type Five who feels victimized by Persecutors who continually seek to emotionally coerce you into connection. #millenneagram

these are stereotypes at best. you have a wide array of attachment patterns, trauma history, & individual parts with individual enneagram efficiencies that consciously & unconsciously guide you through relationship. you have the power to audit their narratives! #millenneagram

i urge you to ask yourself:

where does the scarcity sit in your love?

where does power hold sway in your connections?

don't let internalized capitalist, white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy keep you from engagement that centers abundance.

#millenneagram