Is it mentioned anywhere in sex ed that imagination is a normal part of sexuality for most people and it is not necessarily connected to reality for many? Because the youth who cannot seem to deal with this are legion. And it is NOT a difficult concept, really.
Sex fantasies are not PLANS.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-matters/201707/have-fun-sexual-fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/s...
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-matters/201707/have-fun-sexual-fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/s...
"I would be remiss if I didn& #39;t mention that just because someone has fantasized about something previously doesnât necessarily mean that they want to do it. In other words, not all sexual fantasies are sexual desires."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-myths-sex/201902/some-unusual-sex-fantasies-arent-so-unusual-after-all">https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog...
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-myths-sex/201902/some-unusual-sex-fantasies-arent-so-unusual-after-all">https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog...
When even BuzzFeed knows better.
https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/sexual-fantasies-people-actually-have">https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborge...
https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/sexual-fantasies-people-actually-have">https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborge...
Even Glamour knows better.
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https://www.glamour.com/story/6-totally-normal-sex-fantasies">https://www.glamour.com/story/6-t...
https://www.glamour.com/story/6-totally-normal-sex-fantasies">https://www.glamour.com/story/6-t...
"Whenever I write about fantasies, I like to point out that thereâs a big distinction between your fantasy life and your real life â just because you fantasize about something doesnât mean you actually enjoy it, or want or need to do it in real life." https://www.bustle.com/p/what-do-unusual-sexual-fantasies-mean-60892">https://www.bustle.com/p/what-do...
"... But the human mind is complicated, so thereâs no one personality profile that leads to or results in one kind of fantasy... having a fantasy you donât want to carry out IRL is really common..." https://www.self.com/story/sharing-sexual-fantasies">https://www.self.com/story/sha...
"...Having a sexual fantasy does not always, or even usually, mean that someone is planning to, or destined to, pursue it in real life..."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics...
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics...
About non-con sex fantasies - AKA some people just have an imagination, Joseph.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202003/why-are-rape-fantasies-so-common">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/t...
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202003/why-are-rape-fantasies-so-common">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/t...
"Behaviors can be said to be ethical or unethical, but thoughts cannot be treated the same. Sexual behavior is wrong when someone is hurt."
(very interesting article: religion, guilt, crime, ethics, paraphilia, pornography)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/fighting-fear/201404/sexual-fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog...
(very interesting article: religion, guilt, crime, ethics, paraphilia, pornography)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/fighting-fear/201404/sexual-fantasies">https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog...
From Sexual and Relationship Therapy Journal: "The role of sensuality, imagination, and curiosity in high and optimal sexual satisfaction - Emily Jamea, 2020"
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14681994.2020.1714023
Having">https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/... an imagination is good for your sex life, Jeremiah.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14681994.2020.1714023
Having">https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/... an imagination is good for your sex life, Jeremiah.
The Sunny Side of Smut: for most people, pornography use has no negative effectsâand it may even deter sexual violence.
Scientific American, 2011.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-sunny-side-of-smut/">https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/t...
Scientific American, 2011.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-sunny-side-of-smut/">https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/t...
"...thereâs a whole world of difference between âfantasyâ as an idea of something you want to do and âfantasyâ as an exercise in itself, which you have no intention of fulfilling..." https://worldblog.mysteryvibe.com/blogs/learn/why-have-taboo-sexual-fantasies">https://worldblog.mysteryvibe.com/blogs/lea...
"...Traditionally taboo fantasies â incest, bestiality, a desire to watch your friends fuck each other â must, must, must have a safe airing ground..." https://hyperallergic.com/205294/finding-a-haven-for-taboo-fantasies-in-erotica/">https://hyperallergic.com/205294/fi...
Today is a good day to talk sex issues with ADULTS. There are people who even have degrees on the topic - hey, did you ever notice how human sexuality is not a child& #39;s business?
https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/are-my-past-sexual-fantasies-dangerous-and-unusual/">https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/ar...
https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/are-my-past-sexual-fantasies-dangerous-and-unusual/">https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/ar...
Growing Up Kinky
"Identity development is critically important for sexual minority mental health. Failure to overcome stigma, and especially internalizing that stigma, can lead to anxiety, depression, and suicidality. "
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/s...
"Identity development is critically important for sexual minority mental health. Failure to overcome stigma, and especially internalizing that stigma, can lead to anxiety, depression, and suicidality. "
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/s...
Very nice set of resources: https://twitter.com/actuallyasriel/status/1290026433339777024">https://twitter.com/actuallya...
The Normality of Sexual Fantasies by K Miranda and A Medeiros (2005?)
"... Violent fantasies are not abnormal for most people ... Sexual fantasies alone do not cause violence. Certain psychological states must be present for violence to occur."
https://www.csustan.edu/sites/default/files/honors/documents/journals/sexinstone/Miranda&Medeiros.pdf">https://www.csustan.edu/sites/def...
"... Violent fantasies are not abnormal for most people ... Sexual fantasies alone do not cause violence. Certain psychological states must be present for violence to occur."
https://www.csustan.edu/sites/default/files/honors/documents/journals/sexinstone/Miranda&Medeiros.pdf">https://www.csustan.edu/sites/def...
Long, interesting read about the real perils of judging sexual fantasies with "common sense", against the principle of free speech.
Punishing Sexual Fantasy - Andrew Gilden - 2016
https://scholarship.law.wm.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3672&context=wmlr">https://scholarship.law.wm.edu/cgi/viewc...
Punishing Sexual Fantasy - Andrew Gilden - 2016
https://scholarship.law.wm.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3672&context=wmlr">https://scholarship.law.wm.edu/cgi/viewc...
Fantasies of forced sex are common. Do they enable rape culture?
Interview with researchers and experts. âFuck me, daddyââ is a direct quote from the article, I swear.
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https://qrius.com/fantasies-of-forced-sex-are-common-do-they-enable-rape-culture/">https://qrius.com/fantasies...
Interview with researchers and experts. âFuck me, daddyââ is a direct quote from the article, I swear.
https://qrius.com/fantasies-of-forced-sex-are-common-do-they-enable-rape-culture/">https://qrius.com/fantasies...
Art in the Dichotomy of Freedom of Expression & Obscenity: An Anti-Censorship Perspective
Manitoba Law Journal, 2017, Julie Yan (Featured Student Paper)
https://www.canlii.org/en/commentary/doc/2017CanLIIDocs375#!fragment/zoupio-_Toc3Page2/BQCwhgziBcwMYgK4DsDWszIQewE4BUBTADwBdoAvbRABwEtsBaAfX2zgGYAFMAc0IBMASgA0ybKUIQAiokK4AntADkykREJhcCWfKWr1m7SADKeUgCElAJQCiAGVsA1AIIA5AMK2RpMACNoUnYhISA">https://www.canlii.org/en/commen...
Manitoba Law Journal, 2017, Julie Yan (Featured Student Paper)
https://www.canlii.org/en/commentary/doc/2017CanLIIDocs375#!fragment/zoupio-_Toc3Page2/BQCwhgziBcwMYgK4DsDWszIQewE4BUBTADwBdoAvbRABwEtsBaAfX2zgGYAFMAc0IBMASgA0ybKUIQAiokK4AntADkykREJhcCWfKWr1m7SADKeUgCElAJQCiAGVsA1AIIA5AMK2RpMACNoUnYhISA">https://www.canlii.org/en/commen...
...fiction can use sensitive and taboo topics to discuss and teach alternative perceptions and worldviews, and that no fiction should be banned unless it violates and impinges on fundamental human rights.
(PDF download) https://www.researchgate.net/publication/272392709_Breaking_with_Taboo_Writing_about_Forbidden_Things">https://www.researchgate.net/publicati...
(PDF download) https://www.researchgate.net/publication/272392709_Breaking_with_Taboo_Writing_about_Forbidden_Things">https://www.researchgate.net/publicati...