If you want a “man cave,” there will need to be another room designated specifically for her as well. “The rest of the house” is not designated for her if you and the kids/pets are also there.

I think reciprocity is important in my relationships. We both work. There’s no way in hell part of the house will be “off limits” to everyone except him while I’m contributing. FOH. We both have separate spaces or neither of us do. Period.