How to get over someone who did YOU wrong:

1. Remember what they did to end the relationship. Did they lie, cheat, make you feel less than, disrespect you? Stop reminiscing about the good or falling in love with the potential. You can only go off of what they showed you. When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE them.

2. Remember how they reacted when you expressed your hurt. Did they care? Did they change? Did they make you feel like your feelings were invalid? If they truly cared, you wouldn’t be reading this.

3. Know if they cared, they would’ve fought for it FULLY. Fully means acknowledging what they did, how they understand how it made you feel, and SHOWING how they’ll do better. Words mean nothing without actions.

4. Realize that they know you’re sad right now, yet they haven’t done anything to resolve it. That’s evidence that they’re not fighting for the relationship or care. Their pride is more important than reaching out or they just straight up dgaf

5. Know that you’re better than letting someone who has disrespected you to live rent free in your mind. Don’t give them that power.

6. Know that this is apart of life. They were a lesson. Learn from it and remember you are in control of your happiness. Don’t rely on someone for your peace and damn sure don’t allow some idiot take that peace from you.

7. Date again. No idiot from your past should stop you from potentially meeting someone who could be “the one”. And even if the next person you date isn’t the one, life is about experiences. Remember the good, acknowledge the bad, keep it pushing.

To live is to feel. It’s okay to feel sad. That’s how you know you have a heart. But also remember, happiness feels so much better.