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Left: Single & looking.
Right: Attached & tired.
I’ve read hundreds of complaints within the gay community about how we are only drawn to specific standards of attraction - muscular physique, masc4masc desposition, etc. Read on...
Right: Attached & tired.
I’ve read hundreds of complaints within the gay community about how we are only drawn to specific standards of attraction - muscular physique, masc4masc desposition, etc. Read on...
We are attracted to different things but the mainstream principles remain. Men are visual creatures. We appreciate intelligence, sophistication, depth, passions, etc. but the horndogs that we are drawn to beauty - masculine or feminine display of beauty.
I know you yearn more than raunchy pornstar sex, you want to spend late nights talking about philosophy or religion, pig out while watching RuPaul, yes yes all that but that needs preliminary work, henny. Nothing, nothing comes easy!
Before you can fully be in sync with who you are with your future partner, you need to look presentable, in a way you expect your partner to be too. If ur into muscle, go work out. If you like bears, eat and hibernate. If u like guys with glasses, buy fake glasses.
TRAP. THAT. ASS. The physical part of your relationship will be fleeting, but that’s how you get into a relationship. If you’re the type who don’t give a shit about physicality, make that clear. There is someone for everyone. But make that EFFORT.
Then once you’ve found the one, be happy and evolve as a couple together. If it doesn’t work out, the process repeats. You live, love and learn. Keyword here: effort!
And avoid the unsexiest thing ever. You know, that thing that will make you undateable and unloveable: SELF-PITY. Coz “ If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else! - RuPaul Charles.
I have a belly now that Jared likes to use as a pillow. My unkempt facial hair is his natural exfoliating brush. We try to stay fit for the sake of our health, but VillagePark Nasi Lemak is always in the way. But what the heck, we’re happy, thx to the hours in the gym 3 yrs ago.
If you think I’m being toxic (and maybe I am), I will have to remind you that I’m not encouraging a certain physique or look. I advocate making an effort in your own way for that special someone. Jangan maraaaaa.
