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a. You're not everyone's cup of tea, no matter how nice you are, there'll always be ppl who dislike you
b. Your timeline is different. Stop comparing with your peers & their achievements, their Privilege & struggles are different from yours. You got your own journey. https://twitter.com/rainydaywavysea/status/1254427737420423169
a. You're not everyone's cup of tea, no matter how nice you are, there'll always be ppl who dislike you
b. Your timeline is different. Stop comparing with your peers & their achievements, their Privilege & struggles are different from yours. You got your own journey. https://twitter.com/rainydaywavysea/status/1254427737420423169
c. If you're always wondering if someone wants you or not in their life based on their actions, WALK AWAY.
d. Love doesn't hurt,ppl do. The ones who hurt u didn't know how to love.
e. Any Violence mental/emotional/physical ISN'T love. Love'S NOT supposed to make u feel like shit
d. Love doesn't hurt,ppl do. The ones who hurt u didn't know how to love.
e. Any Violence mental/emotional/physical ISN'T love. Love'S NOT supposed to make u feel like shit
f. You don't owe shit to anyone, not even your parents. You shouldn't be made to feel guilty for living your life. Not saying disown them, but sometimes some people need to be loved from a distance. Don't burden yourself that you owe someone something
g. At the same time, don't be an asshole and walk away from someone who's not really done anything to you and hurting them in the process. No person deserves to keep wondering why you left and feel worthless. You owe them that explanation.
h. Your shitty life, bad mental health, Depression, etc DOES NOT give u the right to be an asshole to others. U have NO Idea what ppl are dealing with. Everyone's dealing with their own shit, you don't have to add to it. Having gone thru it, u shd know better than to hurt someone
i. Jealousy/obsession/controlling behavior is NOT a form of love. And yes I'm talking about parental control as well. You don't have to feel guilty for wanting to live your life,choosing a partner/career etc of ur choice. If they make you feel guilty for it,they don't care abt u
j. It's ABSOLUTELY ok to not marry/want a partner. Society has ingrained in us that we NEED someone to survive. We don't. We may WANT someone, but not NEED them. The onmy person you're gonna NEED is you! So love yourself enough to walk away that targets your mental health/dignity
k. Work Life Balance! Don't worship your work to the point that you don't have time for yourself. Me time is extremely important! Even if it means bingeing on Netflix. The org won't think twice before firing you Remember that.
l. Following your passion is overrated. If you're lucky/Privileged enough to have followed your passion great! If not a 9-5/corporate isn't "boring", it's survival. Whether we like it or not we live in a capitalist society. We need money to survive.
If u r good at it & pays well then you shouldn't feel sad or ashamed of doing desk job. +Pt. corporates have better incentives and leaves than agencies. Passion is all about making you happy. You can still do it while working in corporate.
Your life doesn't allow you the Privilege to follow your passion. That doesn't mean you're not passionate enough to make it. It's hust you have more bigger priorities in life than following your passion.
m. Find what makes you happy. Doniy as often as you can
m. Find what makes you happy. Doniy as often as you can
n. Find happiness in small things. Don't wait for the next promotion/milestone to be happy. Be happy coz you ate your fav ice cream, or you successfully cooked something, etc. If you wait for big things, you'll keep waiting.
o. Take SM detox from time to time. You don't HAVE to post everything online. Likes =/= Your worth. The successful/happy lifestyle on Insta will overwhelm you, the Toxixcity of Twitter will get too triggering. Take a break! For you. You don't know it yet but You need it.
p. Unless you're v good friends with them and have regular interactions, this is SM, you don't owe anyone anything. If someone is being too toxic for your taste, it's ok to cut them off from your social media.
q. Similarly it's ok to cut off people from your life. It's A-okay to outgrow people. Sometimes you grow but people around you refuse to grow. They're conform to the ideas you no longer agree with. And if it's a matter of principle and conscience, it's ok to walk away
r. Self respect>>>>>> Love!
People who put you down, trigger you, "joke" about things they KNOW You're sensitive about are NOT "YOUR" people. They don't really care about you. People who care about you won't put you down ever.
People who put you down, trigger you, "joke" about things they KNOW You're sensitive about are NOT "YOUR" people. They don't really care about you. People who care about you won't put you down ever.
s. It's okay to not be okay. It's okay to have bad days or days where even getting out of the bed is a challenge. You don't have to feel guilty for not being "productive" enough coz you can't get out of the bed. If it's a stay in bed kinda day, stay in. Sleep it off. You need it.
t. Find comfort in your solitude. It's okay to be alone, it's okay to find peace in your own company. You don't NEED to be around people ALL the time. It takes some time to get used to it but solitude is peaceful. Yes there are times you may want someone but that's ok.
u. IF you can manage/afford it - Travel. And travel SOLO! Explore your city, or a go somewhere for a weekend getaway of you're not ready for a solo vacation. Traveling solo is one of the best decision you'll ever take in your life. It's a must have experience!
v. I know it's easier said than done but don't let people putting you down get to you. You're SO MUCH more than what they think about u. There will always be someone who puts you down from family to relatives to even so called friends.Cut off those u can & mentally block the rest
w. The more "woke" & aware you become,the more you'll realise the Bigotry exists in your own people. The people you love & care about.The journey to keeping your conscience alive is a very lonely one. You'll realise the ones you love most are most bigoted. It's ok to cut them off
x. It's NOT a bad thing to be empathetic and emotional. Don't let anyone make you feel guitly for being TOO empathetic. Empathy is what separates us from Animals. The world is cruel as it is. There's too much hate, the least you can do is be empathizing towards others & be nice
