CW: Rape, rape apologism, harassment, suicide, gaslighting, transphobia, sexualising of minors
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With that out of the way,
This is very personal for me.
My girlfriend, @wlwomen has been harassed and gaslit by a piece of shit.
Consider this a public statement.

The abuser has three accounts
Her main, which she has deactivated temporarily is @wlwsupremacy, @dykesbackup is the one she is using now, and @thcrsad is her vent. Her name is Neisha. Stating this for future convinience.

I will first state what happened with her and El (my girlfriend), after which I will provide more background, how she is a manipulative gaslighter, and what she did to others

So, what happened? Neisha, is somewhat of a friend with El. We have been dating for about a month. One night, Neisha gets drunk. She's 16. She spams El with messages, and videos of her being sexual to a certain extent. Making El very uncomfortable.

She is asked to stop. She does not listen. She keeps spamming and constantly crossing boundaries. There isn't much we can get in terms of screenshots, with it being snapchat and all, and El being extremely uncomfortable and insecure at the time.

El has been sexually abused in the past. This is extremely triggering for her, and even me to quite an extent. And how does one make it worse? Neisha repeatedly talks about killing herself as a guilt trip, cause she can't respect boundaries. This is something she does often.

If that is not enough, she then makes constant excuses along the lines of "I have mental issues!", "I was drunk!", "I'm a minor!", before finally providing a complete non-apology AND THEN getting offended that she is still pissed off,

because apparently an apology entitles you to never being called out. Again, common pattern for her.
Now how does one get even shittier you ask? By manipulating mutuals with complete lies and constantly guilt tripping them into sympathy of course!

And then sending them to target me and her! The one in the screenshot is not the only one btw. There are way more. There are just two who directly contacted me is all. The other learnt what exactly was going on and blocked Neisha and apologised.

If just the gaslighting isn't enough. ALL of this is either a lie/rape apologism. The entire "she was lead on" was a complete fabrication. Neisha is ready to lie about El providing her nudes just to play victim. But she keeps manipulating all her moots. Again, its a pattern.

Here is proof that she lies about sending "only one video"
These are two people directly telling me what excuses they were given.
Their privacy is being protected, but if people want to doubt the legitimacy I will ask them to confirm it in this thread.

If you were paying attention, you would have noticed this is a blatant lie given me showing the spam earlier.
But that is not enough, not even nearly! Let's get into the background!

Neisha here has a past of doing this exact same thing and crying victim when the consequences come knocking at her door! Earlier she was cancelled for a disgusting rape "joke"
She kept superficially repeating sorry and guilt tripping everyone.

El thought she was truly sorry and felt sympathy and let her be friends again. And then that happened. But whaddya know? She has some interesting ways of making excuses about these jokes! Yes! The exact same strategy! But Paradox! She hasn't sent mutuals after people?

Oops

But nooooooo, it gets worse. Her pattern of doing absolutely shitty things and then being fake-self depreciative for sympathy extends to being a bigot. So Neisha here considers herself a bi lesbian or bisexual homoromantic. Now, whichever side of the discourse you are on........

There is no way in hell you would ever think this is remotely acceptable. "Maybe Im bisexual cause dick!", "Bi Lesbians are dating trans men!" You know, specifically trans men. Trans men are just tomboys amirite fellas?

And how does she react to it? Yep, you guessed it. Victim crying and never acknowledging her disgusting behavior.
And then, she does a 180 when called out! She cant even stand up for her warped version of bi lesbians!

As a final addendum for this section here is her sexualising minors in a thread about women that lesbians love(along with people like Margot Robbie), followed by excuses

Now, let's talk about her repeating similar behaviour with others.
She was very transphobic to a trans person, and constantly made her "apology" about herself. This isn't you explaining your sexuality. You are literally calling trans men women-lite.

Followed by suicide guilt-tripping

AND THEN, she repeated similar techniques to the trans person's girlfriend at the time. (Again, made anon for privacy because Neisha will get into her dms and repeat her behaviour)

I was about to leave her along after she did another non-apology to me ONLY to save her ass, as she was beyond reproach. But no. You forced my hand. You kept gaslighting her from the background. You kept crying victim. You kept manipulating El's friends.

I don't care if you are 16. I'm just two years older than you. I don't care if you have mental health issues. You keep using mental health as a shield. I don't care if you did drugs or were drunk. You deserve what's coming.

And for any other bitch coming into this thread trying to play excuses? I don't care. You can rant all you want, you will be ignored. Everything has been addressed in this thread.

What she did was act so entitled that she considered her victim complex above those she hurt. Absolutely pathetic.