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Advice to my younger self:
1. Build a strong frame
2. Learn game
3. Put your mission first
As you get these three things right, you begin to realise how everything else can start coming together.
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1. Build a strong frame
2. Learn game
3. Put your mission first
As you get these three things right, you begin to realise how everything else can start coming together.
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1. Build a strong grame
Your frame is how you perceive things. What you choose to focus on. The meaning you assign to those things.
In any interaction, the various frames are clashing. The stronger frame wins, becomes the consensus reality.
People are drawn to a strong frame.
Your frame is how you perceive things. What you choose to focus on. The meaning you assign to those things.
In any interaction, the various frames are clashing. The stronger frame wins, becomes the consensus reality.
People are drawn to a strong frame.
Building a strong frame is a process.
It's not linear. It's a continuous cycle of learning, and growth.
Part of the process is building your own reality. A self-fulfilling profecy.
Mind goes first. Reality follows.
It's not linear. It's a continuous cycle of learning, and growth.
Part of the process is building your own reality. A self-fulfilling profecy.
Mind goes first. Reality follows.
As you build a stronger frame, achieving other goals in your life, like getting the right women or success in your business, or life goals, become easier. And as you get success in other areas of your life, your frame gets stronger, and stronger.
Your frame is all there is.
Your frame is all there is.
2. Learn game
Game is your skills, your mindset and your fundamental traits to attract, seduce, and retain women.
Game is your skills, your mindset and your fundamental traits to attract, seduce, and retain women.
You approach the girls you like.
You grow skills, and experience.
You realise that either you get what you want, or you learn more about how to get what you want.
You grow skills, and experience.
You realise that either you get what you want, or you learn more about how to get what you want.
You grow your ability to keep a constant flow of new quality girls in your life. You qualify them, filter them.
You build relationships with women that add value to your life.
You build relationships with women that add value to your life.
You avoid oneitis.
You avoid being friend zoned.
You avoid feeling hurt or resentful.
You don't suffer for a girl. You learn to enjoy, and have positive experiences with girls.
You avoid being friend zoned.
You avoid feeling hurt or resentful.
You don't suffer for a girl. You learn to enjoy, and have positive experiences with girls.
As you learn more about game, you get better experiences with girls. And as you get better, and better experiences girls, you learn more, and more, about game. About how to get the girls you like.
You also learn how to make the most of what you have. About how to improve your fundamentals.
You improve your body language, your voice, your style, your shape.
You learn more about your sexuality. About her sexuality.
You improve your body language, your voice, your style, your shape.
You learn more about your sexuality. About her sexuality.
You notice that girls chase after you, you don’t chase after girls.
You are the prize.
You are the prize.
3.Put your mission first
Your mission is the most essential stuff that defines what you stand for.
You make sure you know your values, your passions, your strenghs, and you remain true to those.
Your mission is the most essential stuff that defines what you stand for.
You make sure you know your values, your passions, your strenghs, and you remain true to those.
As you understand your mission, you can focus on the things that really matter to you. And as you focus on what really matters to you, you realilse that you get closer, and closer, to what you really want.
Following your mission, your passion, is an attractive trait in itself.
Girls or friends aren't your ultimate goal. Girls or friends are fun, and can enrich your life. Not define it.
You build a powerful life style. Others gravitate towards you.
You make things happen.
Girls or friends aren't your ultimate goal. Girls or friends are fun, and can enrich your life. Not define it.
You build a powerful life style. Others gravitate towards you.
You make things happen.
