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Don’t fall for the social media trap ,it’s probably one the biggest traps you will ever fall for, believe me it doesn’t happen in one go ,it’s a slow gradual process. You subconsciously slowly lose yourself and before you know it you really don’t know who you are.
Be extremely careful of what is popular here , what trends here , what is savage here and what is celebrated here . Negativity , brokenness and sometimes foolishness makes the most noise . I promise you a false narrative can become “truth “ based on its numbers.
Twitter can be so much fun ,when you interact with those who share the same interests with you ,when you make new friends, when your account grows, when you get retweets it feels like acceptance ,affirmation and validation THATS THE TRAP , because how far will you go to get it?
Flip side being subtweeted sucks, being blocked & unfollowed stings like rejection ,being trolled can be traumatic ,being ignored in the dm causes anxiety ,being ignored on a thread can be annoying. Don’t underestimate how you can suffer mentally and emotionally from this
It is very normal on here to use vulgarities, profanities ,nudity and obscenity to express oneself .l for one have used extreme vulgarities to show how cut throat and savage I am , to express my rage to make sure I don’t get disrespected but when doing that the opposite occurrs
I definitely knew I was losing myself when I subconsciously began to be ashamed of the issue of submission in marriage, something that is clear in Gods word simply because on twitter it is defined as weakness and you then become labelled a “pick me” and get trolled and mocked
Sometimes we question what LOVE is , because social media has done a phenomenal job of misrepresenting what love is, what commitment looks like , what forgiveness should be , what marriage should be , more often creating more confusion, frustration and unrealistic expectations.
It starts to manifest itself with self doubt , feeling drained ,negative talking & thinking, being judgemental,constantly arguing , delusions of grandeur ,compromising , always outraged , getting worried . Literally energy gets sapped out of you
So if you feel like you are close to losing yourself , Separate yourself from the pack, reset ,rediscover who you are at the core ,what You stand for ,what Your believe in, what is Your truth, apart from God whom do you seek to please? What does God say about the issue?
Finally Twitter has a log off and a delete button but your life doesn’t . Please Have a mental sieve on this place, have a break sometimes , have some restraint , have self control but whatever you do ,DONT LOSE YOURSELF
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