um because I am a coward I will ask here so I don’t have to do it directly ,,

I read this thread earlier and I really wanted to ask you seriously, but does me being older make you uncomfortable at all?? like I know you said you trust me and everything but now that you know I like you,, sometimes I look at the things I do and from an outsider perspective ++

it seems kinda manipulative? at least to me, and I swear I’d never do anything like that and I’ll always listen to what you think, because I don’t want it to feel like I’m controlling you at all but I just wanted to hear what you think,,