At some point in time, we also have to talk about how what some call silent treatment is the other person being tired of repeated drama and non-productive arguments and choosing to preserve their own sanity. This one-sided narrative of labelling silence as a weapon is no good.
For example, if 2 people have talked about an issue repeatedly with no headway, it is best to agree to disagree and let it go. But one person wants to impose their will on the other. When the other chooses silence, the silent treatment accusation is tabled. That's manipulation.
You can't keep badgering someone and then accuse them of silent treatment when they withdraw from you. The problem is you. You are being abusive. The world does not revolve around you.
Contrary to what you may have been told, not every issue between you and your partner or friend can be resolved by talking. If you have talked and are unable to agree, then you let it go and accept your differences on the matter.
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