Thats a very fair question. If you'll indulge me my I'll start with one addition to each heading in the original list.
7 books by female writers...
(Apologies for the long thread 1 or 23) https://twitter.com/TheBiggestDoc/status/1254047751987499008
7 books by female writers...
(Apologies for the long thread 1 or 23) https://twitter.com/TheBiggestDoc/status/1254047751987499008
Tactics (& accounts of war)
Svetlana Alexievich. The Unwomanly Face of War.
Operational Art
Anna Reid. Leningrad.
Strategy
Pauline Kusiak. Culture, Identity, and Information Technology in the 21st Century.

Operational Art

Strategy

Decision Making
Ann Dunwoody. A Higher Standard: Leadership Strategies From America’s First Female Four-Star General.
Understanding the World
Anne-Marie Slaughter. The Chessboard and the Web: Strategies of Connection in a Networked World.

Understanding the World

Theory
Aimee Fox. Learning to Fight.
Future War
Sarah Kreps & John Kaag. Drone Warfare.

Future War

I would then commend a further 11 books for a wider audience, under these additional topics:
War & Conflict Studies
Barbara Tuchman. The Guns of August.
Annette Levy-Willard. Summer rain.
Cathy Sultan. Tragedy in South Lebanon: The Israeli-Hezbollah War of 2006.
War & Conflict Studies



Justice, Effects of War, Migration and Genocide:
Lidia Tilotta and Pietro Bartolo. Lampedusa: Gateway to Europe.
Molly Crabapple & Marwan Hisham. Brothers of the Gun: A Memoir of the Syrian Civil War.
Pumla Gobodo-Madikizela. A Human Being Died That Night.



Women in the Military
Shoshana Johnson. I’m Still Standing.
Kristin Beck. Warrior Princess.


Eye openers
Soraya Chemaly. Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women’s Anger.
Sohaila Abduali. What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape.
Ijeoma Owo. So You Want To Talk About Race.



These are just my immediate recommendations.
Scanning my own shelves for others, and going through my 'to-read' list of books that have been recommended to me by far cleverer and more interesting people than me I find:
Scanning my own shelves for others, and going through my 'to-read' list of books that have been recommended to me by far cleverer and more interesting people than me I find:















































Finally, I would point people towards the online writings, tweets and essays by numerous professional women across the academic fields. Look through who I follow, I don't agree with some, but I value the perspective and lenses they use to inform.
Feel free to add more!
Feel free to add more!