I took pictures with my girlfriend for the first time ever yesterday after we've dating for 8 months.

We literally never picked up the phone to take (non sexual related content) pictures together.

Craziest shit is when we started talking in August it was pure friendship and I would just call her to listen to her rambling about all the unimportant, but interesting things she knew.

I essentially told this girl how much of a red flag I was and she should aviod dating, she basically agreed but stated she wants that dick though. (Read that in the "can I pet that dog" voice but replace with "can I suck that dick")

Anyway, so now we in September and she wants me to come see her in NY and I agree because I am a hoe and live a flourishing life as a hoe. A honest hoe and all my hoes is honest.

I plan for October, but plans end up getting cancelled because she had a personal journey to overcome. We both would drink endlessly until we pass out on the phone and we both had bad habits for coping

She started working on he bad habits basically and wanted to focus on herself so plans cancelled and we didn't speak for like 3-4 days then she text me she miss me :/

Essentially she explains the depth of the things she was working on so I agree to stop drinking and smoking as well. So a month of us breaking bad habits pass and I go see her literally at the end of October

Keep in mind we're just friends that agreed to fuck. We literally bulit a foundation of friendship in these months. I stopped smoking tobacco completely, she stopped drinking hard liquor completely (was not easy process but we did it)

She instead would make me herbal blunts. No tobacco but herbs to smoke instead. Cut down on my smoking significantly from daily to weekend's and just herbal content.

She cut down on drinking from daily to probably one or twice a month. At this point we make a list of things we want to accomplish, then we make another list of things we want to accomplish and agree to do them together.

(keep in mind we still friends) it's January now and I am going through another one of my depressive episodes and she was quite critical of how I was handling myself during and at first I was upset about it but then I realized that we don't let each other wallow inbad habits

Our friendship/situationship should have fell apart at this point due to how we both started to interact by February because we both were still pushing through bad habits (in communication) while still engaging them at times. Eventually we both realized how foundation is solid-

If we actually keep communicating frequently in non violent manners (practice makes perfect) and eventually this leads to her feeling like my best friend and me telling her damn near everything. We having conversations bout shit I ain't know I could talk to anyone about tbh.

I came to see her at the end of February and ask her to be my girlfriend (I asked before and she said No because she wasn't ready and also she see no point in a relationship DAWG)

We both non monogamous so it wasn't anything about another person blocking but she just didn't see the importance of titles, but I do because things should have places "for me" and my peace. BUT

Keep in mind titles are just false levels of security. A marriage is a title and it doesn't guarantee you won't get divorced. I understand this but I still want her to be my girlfriend

She understands my point and agrees because we basically in a relationship already. Anyway this is the moment I thread all those old tweets that reference her and the shit she's brought into my life I guess

This thread still valid til this day https://twitter.com/legendthepoet/status/1170332070528389129?s=21 https://twitter.com/legendthepoet/status/1170332070528389129