Hookup Culture Lessons I Learned: 2020 version.

Please read at your own precious time. Kung may parehong experience ka, that's good. Kung wala, please enlighten me. Baka hindi ko pa alam kasi.

(This is a thread)
Background:

I'm a closet bi at super discreet. Yung tipo na inaayawan ng mga out pero gustong-gusto ng kapwa discreet. Tapos sobrang cautious sa safety, kasi kapag nabisto o kaya nagkasakit, mawawala na itong discretion ko.

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May nakakaalam ba sa ginagawa ko? Isang tao lang.

Walang kapamilya at kaibigan ko ang nakakaalam dati. Until I disclosed this to one of my closest friend. Tiwala ako dun kasi wala syang pake sa ganitong lifestyle.
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Who is she?
I'll call here Macha. Kasi ayun yung isa sa hilig namin.

Si Macha lang ang nakakaalam sa mga adventures ko. Also malalaman mo din yan mamaya.

Bakit ko hindi ko kayang mag-out?
- Religious family
- Will lose connections
- I'll be having a family one day
Sabaw ang reasons no. I've been this way since I first started working. Nadiscover ko Tinder. Hahaha...wala akong nakakamatch na babae. Hindi naman kasi ako ganun kapogi kaya ayun...I tried the other way around.
Tinder then Grinder and Blued.

Doon ko natagpuan na nasa Discreet category ako. Karamihan sa mga kapareho ko, we have the same characteristic na hindi pwede mag-out.....which is good for me.

- Pamilyado
- Reputation at stake
- O kaya libog lang
The best of all....

They are all older guys. Mga tito o daddy na literal.
Kung gagawa ako ng excel file, marami sa mga discreet na nameet ko nasa IT industry.

Parang ganito ang percentage:
45% - IT, System Developer o kaya Programmer
20% - Sales and Marketing
15% - Accounting
12% - Hotel Staff
8% - Lawyer

(Luh, landi ko)
Sad to say, yung ilan sa kanila may mga pamilya na. Yung iba, may mga boyfriend na. Yung iba gf. Yung iba bored lang.

All of them are discreet just like me. Our rules sa discreet - wag magtanong para konti ang alam.
Rules of Discreet Fun:

1. Don't get attached.
2. Don't ask.
3. Hygiene is a must.
4. Don't leave things behind.
5. Patest ka agad and prep.

#HIVawareness
Pinakamahalaga sa lahat, Don't get your emotion involve. Oo, don't date a discreet guy like me.

We're not out. Aaminin ko, sa simula, sobrang turned off ako sa iba nahook up ko kapag masyadong into being out. (Sorry po sa mga out.)

Bakit?
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