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From the start till the end of chasing in the wild. I learned so many things from every characters of the story. This are my realizations after reading.
PS. Might be a long thread but it's worth the read :)
#CITWEpilogue
#CITWChasingTheEnd
@gwyomi @4reuminct :)
PS. Might be a long thread but it's worth the read :)
#CITWEpilogue
#CITWChasingTheEnd
@gwyomi @4reuminct :)
1. The art of letting go - sometimes you have to let go in order for the both of you to grow individually and spiritually. Letting go doesn't mean it's the end, sometimes it can be the means of a breathing space so that you can reflect on your actions causing you to be wiser ++
and stronger than before also to let you not repeat the same mistake again.
2. The art of forgiveness - actually there are two types of forgiveness that were shown by the characters of citw. (1) Giving forgiveness to the sinner - even though that person caused you so much pain and damaged your whole existence it is still better to forgive than to leave
with so much anger in your heart- it will only bring out the worst version of yourself, you can never be truly happy if you live with the anger in you till the end and everyone deserves to be forgiven or should i say everyone deserves a second chance to reclaim theirselves.
. (2) forgiving yourself. You have to learn to forgive yourself because that's the perfect way to redeem and love yourself entirely. Remember loving yourself and putting yourself first is never wrong unless you overdo it. Both of this act of forgiveness can bring you peace
and can free you from the guilt, pain, agony and the anger you've dealt with therefore you can finally move forward to the next chapter of your life and can live your life without regrets.
3. Acceptance of the past - Accepting what happened in the past and moving on from it will also give you the freedom of genuine happiness and a gift of peace. The past serves as a lecture and molds you into a better invidual. It improves and makes you the person who you are today
4. The pain you get from loving someone - what's new? Pain is the partner of love. It is not love if you didn't feel any pain from it.
It's normal to get hurt but make sure to stand up and take that pain both as a lesson and a motivation to thrive for the better and to support yourself to become much stronger.
5. Accepting your defeat - Like Austin and Bianca, they managed to ask for forgiveness. For Austin at first he denied it but he eventually claimed that it was his fault because he felt the pressure from his father but that doesn't mean what he did is justifiable.
For bianca, she knew that she failed to do her job right and apologized to sevi immediately. We should know that we have to bring our pride down importantly if we are aware that what we did was wrong and admit that we make mistakes.
It's always better to own up and accept the consequences. For us to grow and improvise ourselves better.
6. Unrequited love - learn how to move on and accept the fact that sometimes the people whom we love won't love us back or won't give the same love we give them.
Learn when to give up the love you have for them because too much of it can break you and bring out the worst version of yourself. You must know your limitations.
Wag ng umasa if alam mong hindi ka talaga kayang mahalin pabalik may tamang tao para sayo maghintay ka at wag mong ipagsiksikan ang sarili mo sa taong hindi ka naman magawang mahalin ng katulad ng pagmamahal ng binibigay mo.
In short IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND HINDI KA MAHAL PABALIK WAG KA NG TANGA. Always remember we all deserve to recieve an equal love not just an unrequited love.
7. Self love matters - loving yourself isn't selfish but just don't overdo it. Keep it balanced. Self love gives you the strength to brave and the confidence to be proud of yourself. It enables you to stand up for yourself and keeps your health stable.
-end of thread- di na ulit nagana braincellz ko :(( sana nagets niyo :(( ayon lang naman marami siya lessons. I hope you can share yours too! 
